| Behavior | Concern Level | |----------|----------------| | Isolates your son from family | High | | Disrespects your home rules | Medium-High | | Changes personality drastically around you vs. alone with him | Medium | | Has a new "version" of herself every six months | Low-Medium | | Encourages your son’s growth | Green flag! |
The goal is not to identify the "best version." The goal is to support your son in becoming the best version of himself —whatever partner stands beside him. My Sons GF version
The Mature Integration. She brings wine, asks about your hobbies, and treats your son like a partner, not a project. You start dreaming of grandkids. | Behavior | Concern Level | |----------|----------------| |